隨著布魯克林選擇在IG上詳述與貝克漢家族帝國決裂的秘辛,這場豪門風暴的主角貝克漢終於打破沈默。在長子指控家族品牌霸權的隔日,貝克漢現身第56屆世界經濟論壇(WEF)活動,面對媒體追問,他巧妙地將話題引向網路的力量與青少年社交媒體教育,語帶玄機地指出孩子都會犯錯。過往在面對花邊新聞時,貝克漢以及老婆維多利亞向來鮮少對外發言,並且多年來積極維持完美家庭的形象,因此這段言論被外界解讀為他對布魯克林爆炸性指控的首次公開回應。
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身為26歲布魯克林、23歲羅密歐、20歲克魯茲及14歲小七的父親,貝克漢在接受採訪時表示:「我一直都在談論社群媒體的力量,無論好壞。關於壞的一面,我們討論過孩子現在能接觸到的內容可能很危險,但我發現特別是對我的孩子們來說,要為了正確的理由使用它。像是我能利用我的影響力與粉絲為聯合國兒童基金會(UNICEF)發聲,讓全球關注兒童議題,我也試著用同樣的方式教育我的孩子。」他接著感嘆地說:「他們會犯錯,孩子是被允許犯錯的,因為那是他們學習的方式,這就是我試著教導孩子們的事,但你知道有時候你必須讓他們去犯那些錯。」

布魯克林在IG上指控貝克漢、維多利亞一直以來都在控制他的人生,「在婚禮大日子前幾週,我的父母反覆施壓並試圖賄賂我,要我簽下一份放棄姓名權的協議,這將影響到我、我妻子以及我們未來的孩子。他們堅持要我在婚前簽署,因為那樣合約條款才會正式生效,我的拒絕影響了他們的利益分成,從那之後他們對我的態度就徹底變了。」、「我的妻子一直受到我家人持續性的羞辱,無論我們多麼努力想讓大家團結如一。我的母親多次刻意邀請我過去交往過的對象出現在我們的生活中,其目的顯然是為了讓我們感到難堪。儘管如此,我們還是為了慶祝我父親的生日特地飛往倫敦,然而我們在那裡待了一個星期,窩在飯店房間裡試圖規劃與他的優質相處時間,卻整整被冷落了一週。」、「事實上我生命中的大部分時間一直都在受父母的控制,我從小就生活在極度的焦慮之中,這輩子第一次,自從遠離我的原生家庭後,那種焦慮感已經消失了。現在我每天早上醒來都對自己選擇的生活充滿感激,並感到平靜與解脫。」
這份具爆炸性的聲明重新揭開了貝克漢家族的深層傷口,隨著控制權與焦慮感的指控發酵,貝克漢過去接受外媒採訪的一段內容也再度受到外界關注。根據外媒報導,貝克漢曾經分享布魯克林對他說「爸,我不確定我想一直踢足球」時,那是他作為父親最心碎的時刻。當時布魯克林受到星二代帶來的沉重壓力,「每當我踏上球場,我都知道人們在說那是大衛貝克漢的兒子,如果我表現得不如你那就代表我不夠好。」對此貝克漢對兒子說:「那就到此為止,你踢球是因為你想踢。」貝克漢隨後解釋:「我不希望我的孩子有那種壓力,我只希望他們快樂。」

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多年來我一直保持沉默,並竭盡全力將這些家務事保留在私人範圍內。遺憾的是我的父母及其團隊卻不斷向媒體爆料,讓我別無選擇,只能站出來為自己發聲,揭露那些已被刊登出來的部分謊言。我並不想與我的家人和解,我現在沒有被任何人控制,這是我這輩子第一次真正為自己挺身而出。在我的一生中,我的父母始終在媒體上操控關於我們家族的敘事,那些帶有表演性質的社群媒體貼文、家族活動以及虛假的人際關係,是我自出生以來就必須面對的日常。最近我親眼目睹了他們為了維護自己的完美形象,不惜在媒體上撒下無數謊言,甚至犧牲無辜的人,但我深信真相終會大白。
從我的婚禮之前開始,我的父母就一直試圖破壞我的感情,至今未曾停止。儘管妮可拉當初非常期待穿上我母親設計的婚紗,我母親卻在最後一刻取消了製作,迫使她必須緊急尋找新的禮服。在婚禮大日子前幾週,我的父母反覆施壓並試圖賄賂我,要我簽下一份放棄姓名權的協議,這將影響到我、我妻子以及我們未來的孩子。他們堅持要我在婚前簽署,因為那樣合約條款才會正式生效,我的拒絕影響了他們的利益分成。從那之後他們對我的態度就徹底變了。在籌備婚禮期間,我母親甚至罵我邪惡,只因我和妮可拉決定邀請我的保姆珊卓以及妮可拉的外婆坐主桌,因為她們都沒有老公可以陪伴,而我們的父母其實都有各自安排在緊鄰主桌的座位。
婚禮前一晚,我的家人告訴我妮可拉沒有血緣關係且不算家人,自從我開始為自己挺身而出,我就不斷遭受父母私下及公開的攻擊,甚至由他們下令發給媒體至連我的親兄弟也被指派在社群網路上攻擊我,最後還在去年夏天莫名其妙地封鎖了我。婚禮當天,我母親甚至搶走了我和妻子的第一支舞,那原本是我們策劃數週、要搭配浪漫歌曲的橋段。在500名賓客面前,Marc Anthony叫我上台,原本該是我與妻子的舞蹈,卻變成我母親等在那裡要跟我跳舞。她在眾目睽睽之下對我做出極度不雅且不當的舉動,這是我這輩子感到最不舒服、最受羞辱的時刻。所以我們後來才會希望能重溫婚禮誓言,好讓我們能擁有充滿快樂而非焦慮與尷尬的婚禮回憶。
我的妻子一直受到我家人持續性的羞辱,無論我們多麼努力想讓大家團結如一。我的母親多次刻意邀請我過去交往過的對象出現在我們的生活中,其目的顯然是為了讓我們感到難堪。儘管如此,我們還是為了慶祝我父親的生日特地飛往倫敦,然而我們在那裡待了一個星期,窩在飯店房間裡試圖規劃與他的優質相處時間,卻整整被冷落了一週。他拒絕了我們所有的邀約,除非是在那場有上百位賓客和無數攝影機環繞的大型生日派對上,當他終於同意私下見我時,開出的條件竟然是妮可拉不能參加。這對我們來說簡直是奇恥大辱,後來當我的家人旅行到洛杉磯時,他們甚至完全拒絕見我。
我的家族將大眾宣傳和商業背書看得比任何事情都重要。對他們而言,「貝克漢品牌」(Brand Beckham)永遠排在第一位。家庭間的愛取決於你在社群媒體上發了多少貼文,或者你能多快放下手邊的一切趕過去,只為了在家庭大合照中現身擺拍,即便這必須以犧牲我們的專業職責為代價。多年來,我們費盡心力出席每一場時裝秀、每一場派對和每一次媒體活動,只為了向外界展示我們是完美的一家人。然而唯一一次我妻子為了在洛杉磯火災期間營救流離失所的狗而尋求我母親的支持時,我母親卻拒絕了。
關於我妻子控制我的說法完全是本末倒置,事實上我生命中的大部分時間一直都在受父母的控制。我從小就生活在極度的焦慮之中,這輩子第一次,自從遠離我的原生家庭後,那種焦慮感已經消失了。現在我每天早上醒來都對自己選擇的生活充滿感激,並感到平靜與解脫。我和妻子不想要一種被形象、媒體或操弄所塑造的生活。我們只想要屬於我們自己、以及未來家庭的平靜、隱私與幸福。

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I have been silent for years and made every effort to keep these matters private.Unfortunately, my parents and their team have continued to go to the press, leaving me with no choice but to speak for myself and tell the truth about only some of the lies that have been printed.I do not want to reconcile with my family. I'm not being controlled, I'm standing up for myself for the first time in my life.For my entire life, my parents have controlled narratives in the press about our family. The performative social media posts, family events and inauthentic relationships have been a fixture of the life I was born into. Recently, I have seen with my own eyes the lengths that they'll go through to place countless lies in the media, mostly at the expense of innocent people, to preserve their own facade. But I believe the truth always comes out.
My parents have been trying endlessly to ruin my relationship since before my wedding, and it hasn't stopped. My mum cancelled making Nicola's dress in the eleventh hour despite how excited she was to wear her design, forcing her to urgently find a new dress. Weeks before our big day, my parents repeatedly pressured and attempted to bribe me into signing away the rights to my name, which would have affected me, my wife, and our future children. They were adamant on me signing before my wedding date because then the terms of the deal would be initiated. My holdout affected the payday, and they have never treated me the same since. During the wedding planning, my mum went so far as to call me "evil" because Nicola and I chose to include my Nanny Sandra, and Nicola's Naunni at our table, because they both didn't have their husbands. Both of our parents had their own tables equally adjacent to ours.
My wife has been consistently disrespected by my family, no matter how hard we've tried to come together as one. My mum has repeatedly invited women from my past into our lives in ways that were clearly intended to make us both uncomfortable.Despite this, we still travelled to London for my dad's birthday and were rejected for a week as we waited in our hotel room trying to plan quality time with him. He refused all of our attempts, unless it was at his big birthday party with a hundred guests and cameras at every corner. When he finally agreed to see me, it was under the condition that Nicola wasn't invited. It was a slap in the face. Later, when my family travelled to LA, they refused to see me at all.
My family values public promotion and endorsements above all else. Brand Beckham comes first. Family "love" is decided by how much you post on social media, or how quickly you drop everything to show up and pose for a family photo opp, even if it's at the expense of our professional obligations. We've gone out of our way for years to show up and support at every fashion show, every party, and every press activity to show "our perfect family." But the one time my wife asked for my mum's support to save displaced dogs during the LA fires, my mum refused.
The narrative that my wife controls me is completely backwards. I have been controlled by my parents for most of my life.I grew up with overwhelming anxiety. For the first time in my life, since stepping away from my family, that anxiety has disappeared. I wake up every morning grateful for the life I chose, and have found peace and relief.My wife and I do not want a life shaped by image, press, or manipulation. All we want peace, privacy and happiness for us and our future family.
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